On #Visabae and Finding Self

Currently listening to Sia's Waving Goodbye This week has been short and uber interesting. Asides the usual weirdness of social media, my life has been twisting one way and then another. Talking about Visabae, the lifestyle blogger with a feed to die for that created a Gofund me for donations towards her visa application as …

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Does “I love You ” trump “I respect You”?

Someone asked myself and three people what we considered more important in a relationship between love and respect. She said she read an article by an American Professor who, based on research,  discovered that 76% of men preferred a respectful woman even though she didn't love them to a woman that loved but didnt show …

Self Care Tips for the Busy Nigerian Millennial

Writing this post made me realize how poorly some of us treat ourselves. Self-care is any activity that we do deliberately in order to take care of our mental, emotional, and physical health. Although it’s a simple concept in theory, it’s something we very often overlook. Good self-care is key to improved mood and reduced stress. It’s also …

Funeral At Noon.

The funeral was at noon. I met Tony when I was just 21 years old and semi stupid. He was an executive at this firm I wanted to intern with. Tall , dark, handsome and ruthless was how he was described and none of it was an overstatement. He had pearly white teeth set against …